
Mini Guide: How to Manifest Self-Concept and Confidence

Your self-concept is one of the most important things you can manifest, and often what 
manifesting coaches and experts will recommend you start with.

Your self-concept is how you perceive yourself. The inner conversations you have about 
yourself, the thoughts about your own worth and value, your own opinion of who you are 
and how you contribute to the world. 

If you have a poor self-concept and lack self-confidence, it can be a lot harder to 
manifest anything else in your life, because you don’t feel like you deserve it. When it 
comes to manifesting a specific person, it is even more challenging because if you don’t 
feel like someone worthy of being chosen and desired by this person, how can you shift 
into that reality?

This is when the self-concept work becomes vital. Here are some tips for getting started 
with manifesting a better self-concept and more confidence.


3 Steps to Manifesting Self-Concept and Confidence

When you are ready to finally improve your self-concept and gain more confidence to 
live the life of your dreams, start with these 3 simple steps:


Step 1 – Identify Your Current Self-Concept and What Needs to Change

In order to choose affirmations that help with your self-concept, you first need to 
understand where you are right now. 

Identify what you think and feel about yourself right in this moment. What do you need 
to work on? What do you feel are your weaknesses or traits you don’t like about 
yourself? What do you think your limitations are? What do you often say about yourself 
that is on the negative or positive side?

Think about all the times you talked down to yourself or about yourself, what you think 
you’re not good enough for, how you limit yourself. This is all important and you need to 
be really honest with yourself so you know what to focus on.








Step 2 – Choose Affirmations That Reflect Your New Self-Concept

Take the list of how you feel about yourself, and flip all of the negative thoughts into 
positive ones. This is how you know what your affirmations should be. 

For example, if you don’t feel worthy enough for your specific person, use “I am worthy 
and deserving of love” as an affirmation. 

Some others might include:

I am perfect just the way I am.
My (specific person) loves me for me.
I am smart, strong, and capable.


Step 3 – Create a Plan and Choose Your Desired Techniques

You want to saturate your mind with these affirmations, so figure out a plan for when 
you can loop them in your mind. This might be when you are doing mundane tasks and 
your mind tends to wander, when your thoughts are on what you don’t want, or timing 
yourself to loop them for 10-minute increments 2-3 times a day.

You can also use the scripting technique if you enjoy writing, where you can write down 
your new self-concept affirmations or even create desired scenes while scripting.


Bonus Tips

Here are a few more things to keep in mind when you are manifesting a better self-
concept:

Identify where your insecurities come from – With a poor self-concept, you likely have 
insecurities that come from your childhood or past circumstances. These circumstances 
no longer matter, but it is good to identify where they come from, so you can us 
affirmations that start to challenge them.

Rewrite your old story – Use affirmations to rewrite your own story, which is known as 
revision. If you have always felt a certain way about your intelligence or the way you 
look, change it by using affirmations that start with “I always..”. You will start to flip your 
thoughts and begin to assume you have always been the way you want. 






Self-Concept and Confidence Affirmations

I always get what I want.
Everything always works out for me.
The universe shifts realities in my favor.
Things always work out in my favor.
Amazing things are always happening to me.
I love my life.
I am grateful for my life.
I love who I am.
Everyone loves me for who I am.
I am so fun to be around.
It is easy for me to make friends.
People want to be around me.
I am like a magnet for other people.
I am the person who has everything.
Everything about my life is perfect.
I am adored.
I am chosen.
I am magnetic.
People want to be my friend.
People are constantly complimenting me.
What I desire always chooses me.
I always get the desires I manifest.
Everything is so easy for me.
My positive thoughts always manifest.
I only think positive thoughts about myself.
I am a goddess.
I am in control of my destiny.
I create my own future.
Everyone wants to be around me.
I am the God of my reality.
I am the operant power.
I choose my own reality.
Everything is always perfect.
Nothing is impossible for me.
I am a very powerful manifester.
It is easy to manifest anything I want.
I am a master at manifesting.
Everything comes so easy to me.
Whatever I want is mine.
Whatever I can imagine, I can have.
I manifest all good things in my life.
It is so easy to manifest whatever I want.
I am appreciated.
I am adored.
I am treated with respect.
I am loved unconditionally.
I am treated with kindness.
I am all I ever wanted to be.
I am building my dream life.
Everything is in perfect harmony.


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Write Your Own Affirmations:






